Whether you call them escorts, courtesans, providers, partners or anything else you want to call them, they are extremely demanding professions. As a professional escort, you must possess multiple skills to be memorable and attract the correct type of clients, unlike other jobs where you need to excel at a particular task. Aside from knowing how to dress and what makeup to wear, you also need to know how to have a good conversation and know how to read your date so that you can adapt your approach based on his personality, his disposition, or his sexual preferences, and last but not least, know how to have a wicked sexual experience.
Escorting is not an easy job, and it’s only for some, so you should consider it carefully before embarking on this career path in the first place.
Providing care can be exhausting both physically and mentally, and it takes a lot of energy and can distract you from enjoying other activities outside the workplace.
A top service provider is not just an escort that delivers an average service, but one who can separate their personal life from their escort one.
Remember why you are doing this type of work by setting a goal for yourself.
Your escorting activity can be sped up by knowing why you are doing what you are doing and having an end goal in mind. It might be a good idea to reconsider your decisions if you are working as a provider for the wrong reason. Women who are doing this because they have suffered emotional or physical abuse, because they want to reestablish a relationship with an ex, or because they think they have a chance of getting a wealthy potential partner this way.
If you treat escorting like a regular job, it will be less stressful, as it will have a set schedule, and you will have plenty of free time and rest.
You can feel more organized and separate your work and private life if you create a space for entertaining your clients if you do incalls. To distinguish between your work and your personal life, having a separate incall location for your escorting activity or a shared location with a fellow escort would be best.
You need to take a vacation! If you need to work on holidays, do it on rotation – for example, if you work on Easter, try to be accessible on Christmas. Also, if you had a “normal” job, you would have some time for yourself, like on a girl’s trip or a vacation with your partner. Why not do the same when you work as an escort?
Make sure you mention your availability and preferred communication method on your websites or escort directory profile, such as What’s up, email, text message, or phone. If you want to avoid creating a precedent for your clients, be sure you have two phones, one for work and one for your personal life. Do not answer work calls or texts outside of working hours.
If you’re a professional escort, it’s best to set boundaries with your clients. In this way, your dates will know when they should contact you, respect that, and realize you have a personal life, so they will not bother you while on vacation or know not to bother you outside the dates you have planned and scheduled.
Darling, you’re not suited to be an escort if you are unable to distinguish between your personal and your escort life because soon you’ll feel exhausted, your dates won’t respect your privacy or boundaries, and you won’t have time for yourself, and won’t remember who you are outside of work.
You’ll have a better chance of becoming a great professional, one that is respected by her dates and provides them with an experience they will never forget. Stay aware of the escorting life, and you’ll have better chances of becoming a great professional.